Three questions that made my dialogue more meaningful

Centuries ago Socrates offered guideline for speech known as Triple Filter test. It is about asking ourselves three questions before sharing information.

1. Is it true?

We should firstly consider whether what we would like to say is based on facts rather than assumptions, rumors or guesses.

2. Is it good?

Even if something is true does it bring value, kind or positivity to others? Words can either heal or harm and this filter reminds us to choose wisely.

3. Is it useful?

Not everything true, kind or positive is necessarily relevant. If the information doesn't serve a purpose - it may be better left unsaid.

Usages

You notice some function in code is missing input validation.

• Is it true? Yes, inputs aren't checked.

• Is it good? Yes, adding validation prevents bugs and other issues.

• Is it useful? Yes, fix is actionable before deployment.

✅ Passes the filter.

You tell a coworker in the middle of a meeting: "That presentation was boring"

• Is it true? Maybe subjective opinion.

• Is it good? No, humiliating someone publicly is unkind.

• Is it useful? Not really, it doesn't help improve the presentation in that moment.

❌ Fails the filter.

Summary

Applied from today, this simple filter can help reduce misinformation, prevent unnecessary conflicts and generally change how you communicate your thoughts.